I Love You Mummy!

I working, yeah its midnight. Actually early morning, but I am bored as last night was terrible with family and some issues. I love my bro sagar and maa a lot but sometimes.... :(

But while working now with disappointed mood, I just randomly checked my whatsapp there was an unread message...it was forward which I ignore.. But things happened differently... It touched my heart and made me polite... Read it ...

DATE WITH A WOMAN…................please read

After 21 years of Marriage, my Wife wanted me to take another Woman
out to Dinner and a Movie.

She said I Love You but I know this other Woman loves you and would Love
to spend some Time with You.

The other Woman that my Wife wanted me to visit was my MOTHER,

who has been a Widow for 19 years,

but the demands of my Work and my three Children had made it possible
to visit her only occasionally.

That night I called to Invite her to go out for Dinner and a Movie.

'What's wrong, are you well,' she asked?

My Mother is the type of Woman who suspects that

a Late Night Call or a Surprise Invitation is a sign of Bad News.

'I thought that it would be pleasant to be with you,'
I responded.

'Just the two of us.'

She thought about it for a moment, and then said,
'I would like that very much.'

That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up I was a bit Nervous.
When I arrived at her House, I noticed that she too seemed to be Nervous
about our Date.

She waited in the Door with her Coat on.

She had Curled her Hair and was wearing the Dress that she had worn to
Celebrate her last Wedding Anniversary.

She smiled from a face that was as Radiant as an Angel's.

'I told my Friends that I was going to go out with My Son, and they were impressed, '

She said, as she got into the Car.

'They can't wait to hear about our meeting'.

We went to a Restaurant that, although not Elegant, was very Nice and Cozy.

My Mother took my Arm as if She were the First Lady.

After we sat down, I had to read the Menu. Large Print.

Half way through the entries, I lifted my eyes and saw Mom sitting
there staring at me.

A Nostalgic Smile was on her Lips.

'It was I who used to have to Read the Menu when you were young,'

She said.

'Then it's Time that you Relax and let me Return the Favor,'

I responded.

During the Dinner, we had an Agreeable Conversation, nothing
Extra-ordinary, but catching up on recent Events of each others Life.

We talked so much that we missed the Movie.

As we arrived at her House later,

She said, 'I'll go out with you again, but only if you let me invite you.'

I agreed.

'How was your Dinner Date?' asked My Wife when I got Home.

'Very Nice. Much more so than I could have Imagined,' I answered.

A few days later, my Mother died of a Massive Heart Attack.

It happened so suddenly that I didn't have Time to do anything for her.
Some time later, I received an Envelope with a Copy of a Restaurant Receipt

from the same place Mother and I had dined.

An Attached Note Said:

'I paid this Bill in Advance.

I wasn't sure that I could be there;

But nevertheless, I paid for Two Plates 
One for You and the Other for Your Wife.

You will never know what that Night meant for Me. 

I Love You,  My Son.'

At that moment, I understood the Importance of saying in Time:
'I LOVE YOU!'

and to give our Loved Ones the Time that they Deserve.

Nothing in Life is more important than God and your Family.

Give them the Time they Deserve, because these Things cannot be
Put Off till 'Some Other Time.'

Pass This Along To Everyone

With An Aging Parent,
To A Child,
To An Adult,
To Anyone With A Parent,
To an OLD FRIEND
To your Mate
And Most Importantly, 

To Someone  You Truly Love.
Worth reading....

Yes, its worth reading .... Just read and u will understand. :)

5 Important Things Understood by Self - Understanding.

Today, I am writing my blog after so long, exactly after 20 days, actually I tried to writeup my blog many times but there came stupid excuses and distractions. Anyways, but in these 20 days, experimented and gone through the most important experiences of my life which taught me many things. Thus, I would like to share few of the things here.

1) Don't Change Yourself , Don't Change Your Goodness

2) Don't Fear To Listen & Do What Your Heart/Soul Wants You To Do

3) Accept Your Faults & Allow People To Nail On Your Back

4) Don't Fear To Bear Your Insult, It Actually Helps You To Grow Even Better

5) If People Ignores You, Be Such A Great Power That Wherever They Look, Turns Head and Peer, They See, listen & Think About You.

Actually these facts will grow you. It will build your self confidence. Not everyone understands these self- understanding things, only power people understand it. As I am very much tired today. Hope the right message gets delivered to you via this post, just 5 points !

Importance Of Love In My Life & Right Way To Love Someone.. That's what I believe

Today, since morning, I was very curious to write my blog at this time, but was wandering what I am going to write today. Finally, decided that I will write something about love, the importance of love in my life and how one must take the meaning of love in their life. Generally, and truly I was in assumption that love exists only when both the people love each other and that becomes health relation. But, honestly when I see this with my new eyes to the world, I feel its very much enough if you only just love. Love, itself is a complete subject, there is never any other filaments to be a part of true love we have. I love my crocodile so much, that it is useless to even express and I live lovely with the duplicate soul of my crocodile in me. Its not about being so public, but yes, its my blog and everyone has right to be open to universe. My love got developed being away from my crocodile more and more ........ and yes it is increasing day by day. In such a time of my life, I learnt two things  about love ie.
1) Need For Love
2) Desire for Love

I know, some may thinking that I am making it complicated, but no, I am making it easy to understand as my theories are more dependable on experience and deep analysis on human nature.


Now, when it comes need for love, anyhow we need it... this is what we assume.. that we cannot control our emotions and we no matter what so happened we just want out partner to be with us.. that's true it happens. Infact it happens with me too. :) So, if we don't have to disturb or ask the other who don't love you but you do... it's good to be away and practice for self control. The only practice is just that deeply miss him or her in your heart and if you really have that attraction and true love, you will feel your love. It's not faking, but try you will truly feel the love. It helped me and yes it makes you happy on heights, means, happy to success in your life.  Because, this art  of getting our love within ourselves, is blessed to only we humans on this earth.

While, we talk about desire for love, then it means that you want from your lovely partner something. Honestly, I am not asking to compromise but that 'wanting for love' is a expectation which is the worst illness of love relationship...! Want kills us and changes ourself from the lovely person we were due to intense grief in heart. Don't keep desires for love.... if you keep than just keep desire for happiness and blessing from your love relationship and act accordingly. No matter, if your partner, who don't love you, but if you keep him or her happy and make them feel bless ... same you will receive.. Wants in love is selfishness.... which is not health. Well, everyone have different definition for love.. for me I don't need 'want' , I need and I am getting it with my beautiful practice of extracting love within myself. Try it. and share. :)

My Last Weekend of March! - BE Happy | BE Successful | BE The Best - Just Two Problems and Just Two Solutions :)

Aaah.. my last weekend was dam busy and was flooded with work and meetings but but... I am glad that some is the best we all have in our life actually helps us to be cherish and happy all the time. They are non other than our friends. Last weekend, even sunday was busy but my weekends eves become awesome because one of my beautiful besto friend Roshni Shah. Being, very honest she is elder than me ... :P but I must say a beautiful soul who helped me to be mange work and myself without bursting anger or showers of fires on me. Generally, when we say that we ain't feeling great and seems soulfully sad, there is always two reason.
1) We are in guilt due others or from surroundings or by us.
2) So called ' Ugly Situations'

On this past weekend, our main agenda of spending time together was meaningful that even it can be helpful to anyone. We just wanted to brainstrom a lot analyzing the things which makes our life so dull and ugly. We found two solutions again to solve this stupid but yes very common issues of every one of us.
1) 'Confess By Heart' and 'Forgive Yourself' as soon as possible. Be selfish in this case to get free from burden on guilt and the think of helping surrounding or others of be from guilt.

2) Speak Up and Do Discuss a loud with your super mature and sensible friend circle, who can actually understand you, brainstrom and help you to come out with the right solution. It's very important to have good friend circle and the most important positive friends. Its not the statement of any baisness.. but as it is said that be in surrounding with positive people.

Well, these two things can solve n number of issues and problems of your life. Just start to accept things from little, one day you will finish up all your negativity.

Thanks for my friends, who always helped me Aesha, Annu, Vijay, Roshni and the special my crocodile. :) Few clicks of my last weekend. :)

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