After months........Life Changed!

I am writing after long on this blog. Just because, I was lost to make myself lost. :)

Well, that's a diplomatic statement. Saw my previous posts, don't understand with what mood swings and with how many grammar mistakes, I have written those. LOL...

Yes, I laugh on myself. Life is very busy but suddenly today one of my old friend helped me to looking forward in the life .. he asked me to close my eyes and find in peace about whom I think the most. I was shocked it was still my crocodile. But I smiled and was happy that good things are always in me. :)

I have understood that living life is actually so pleasant than being just thinking of living it. Again a diplomatic one! When someone make you alone in your life, its never his or her fault. It's our fault, but getting out of that loneliness its tough and great job! My crocodile once shared very good thing that I always remember - one wants adrenaline to be so cool in real but nothing else. haha

No, but I always believed my crocodile and yes I started focusing on that for me. My crocodile said that for performing live really gets your adrenaline going people do boozing, sex, smoke, drugs, or many other things which effects them. I was like... Wooooaahh... is it so? But yes, it worked for me.. my adrenaline gets on going great path just by focusing on my self, I started self dating, having my favorite food/chocolates, made myself very special, focused on my passion, my pi club, my lovely pis', my lovely social media..,, Now, I say I love everyone and yes love my crocodile so much because my crocodile made me very independent and a better person than I was... VERY IMPORTANT thing! :)

I mean it and really feel it .... infact felt it today when in this shimmering winter I went alone on long drive and missed my crocodile's jacket pocket! hahah crocodile skin is good isn't it?? LOL

Signing off!!!! :) Looking forward to Christmas... since two years been with my crocodile... let's see what I do this time to make it Awesome again... ! :) Will write it! :)

My New Mantra for Happy Life!

The Jerk and Perk to read and write is so instant in me! There was a time when I was so conscious about my writing and when we are surrounded by conscious, in my case thing drop down. So, I figured out many things in my life which wasn't allowing me to live my life completely with the most happening things I wanted to do in my life. Today, I discovered a new thing while having a sip of my coffee in the morning....

"The More You Hate People, The More You Judge People, The More You Loose Your Happy Life... "

- Jenny Chawla

Photo by aprison aprison

You. Make. My. Heart. Smile :)

In life sometimes, you just need someone that special person in your life, but you don't need anything from that person. For that person I say ' You. Make. My. Heart. Smile :) ', which is true! My crocodile made my heart smile after so long.

 

Well, I believe and trust that its in our hand to have one such thing in our life to whom or which we can say that 'You make my heat smile :)'. Our attitude and vision towards life decides takeaways in return to us. Generate Happiness In You! Generate Happiness In Other! Live A Happy Life!

Happy Birthday Aesha! :)

My friends are my happiness! My friends are the jewels of my life! She is the one who always been with me when I was nothing and a failure of tests in tutions. She never let me feel that I am culprit or worthless. She knows my strength and weakness, hence she never leaves me alone and be with me always in whatever phase I have been so far. She fight with me for my goodness. She is more like mother and sister to me. Though, I use to be busy or away from her but she never let me feel that I am dis-rooted from her. I am very much proud of her. My crocodile left me but she been with me though people say I am cyco! My stress, my depression, my anger, my misbehavior she understood everything and never left me alone! I am very much proud to say that I have such a Best Friend - Aesha Vaghela. The real Diva of my life. The real beauty of my life. #lotsOfRespect
Wish you a very #HAPPYBIRTHDAY Aeshu! God Bless You! I love you a lot! #Alwaysthere4you

 

It's important to live a life lively! :)

World is getting passionate about fifa wordcup 2014 and I am getting passionate about my self and my life. My crocodile asked me once to hear one of the beautiful soon Hum Jee Jayenge... and I understood that. I have found love within me. :)

These days I started singing, analysing beautiful nature, my poetry, painting, cooking ... Yeah.. I know things are strange but its fun...! I use to cook a lot these days, not only in my kitchen, but also in my friend's kitchen.

Best cold coffee I have ever made. This weekend after having this I and my friend Preeti decided that we will never go for a coffee outside.

 In short I just want to say, some of ugly people from this world will always try to kill your originality and happiness you have in your life. No need to give a attention to their  ugliness. Be always happy, confident trust your guruji and never ever leave the goodness in your heart. :) Stay tuned will be sharing my new poem very soon.!

"Fact : Incomplete and Unanswered Things Never Allows To Concentrate" But How to overcome such things?

Its midnight 3:09am, sparrows are still chripping out my window, I just finished watching Bhaag Milkha Bhaag Movie 9th time, as its very special movie I can say of my life. Honestly, it was required to boost my confidence and not to run away from the situations I am going through. I started this blog with some other mood, in the memory of my crocodile, to whom I never wanted to kill inside me, but since a month I am desperately trying kill it, I am running from many things in life, I am actually not able to FOCUS! But, But, But... I am a warrior and life is a Struggle! That's the reason, I Googled today - " how to control your mind?" & How to focus in life?

The very first video came in search results was
"What is Body and Mind and how to control it " - from Shri Baghwad Geeta, in which I never taken interest to even listen it. But today I saw this video for 2 times inorder to understand and get my answers.

I got my answer - I understood very important things about myself, ie. how my body works and how my mind governs it and how I have to control my mind!

3 Very Important things :

1. Understand your mind, like where it is getting attracted, why and is it right to forward ourselves towards that attractant.
2. Once we understand things and examined ourselves  by self-judging, educated strictly to ourselves about the right path.
3. Build discipline in our life, unless that we won't be able to educate and CHANGE our life.

This is what I gulped now in my mind but after this I saw Bhaag Milkha Bhaag saw same things and practically Understood.

At the end of the movie, I will implement the words of Milkha Singh ji - " Hard Work, Will Power & Dedication every thing is possible!"

Let me know how does these things sound to you. Share your views with me.

Trust Yourself! Love Yourself! Encourage Yourself ! Pamper Yourself And... Live the BEST LIFE!

I know its been very long that I was not writing!.. Huh...Things were hazardous and I was busy sorting them. Any ways, I am happy as I am not changed and quite very happy with the same energy and happiness in me. In past month, I actually learned a lot from my life experience. I am no where bound neither my thoughts are confused or bound. So far I just heard these words
"Trust Yourself! Love Yourself! Encourage Yourself ! Pamper Yourself And... Live the BEST LIFE!"

 

Now, I believe it and living my life with the same attitude. If someone has broken your heart, if someone ditched you, someone play game with you, if someone broken your trust, if someone faked you all your relation in life... then you are responsible for that! Because, you have given your precious life's locked and handover the keys to them to use the way they want to.This fact is very controversial to accept, but once if we accept that we are wrong, the problem is within us, we have to live our own precious life without locking it, we have to CHANGE! The moment you accept this , the very next moment your attitude, your vision towards your life changes. It turns you in to happy and very positive human being. If we keep thinking that people who did wrong with you, we will never think about ourselves, will never find our faults. 

If things are happening wrong with you, be ready to accept this that you have chosen them. So its your mistake. I know, everyone gets pissed... but to come out of it take time for yourself and analyze yourself, then accept your mistakes and change yourself! Things are good to work for sure!....What best you can do for yourself, do it! Live it fully and be happy.  Forget the past and live in present. Make it rocking one! Always thank people who give your pains, because of them you are strong and happy today. :)

I Love You Mummy!

I working, yeah its midnight. Actually early morning, but I am bored as last night was terrible with family and some issues. I love my bro sagar and maa a lot but sometimes.... :(

But while working now with disappointed mood, I just randomly checked my whatsapp there was an unread message...it was forward which I ignore.. But things happened differently... It touched my heart and made me polite... Read it ...

DATE WITH A WOMAN…................please read

After 21 years of Marriage, my Wife wanted me to take another Woman
out to Dinner and a Movie.

She said I Love You but I know this other Woman loves you and would Love
to spend some Time with You.

The other Woman that my Wife wanted me to visit was my MOTHER,

who has been a Widow for 19 years,

but the demands of my Work and my three Children had made it possible
to visit her only occasionally.

That night I called to Invite her to go out for Dinner and a Movie.

'What's wrong, are you well,' she asked?

My Mother is the type of Woman who suspects that

a Late Night Call or a Surprise Invitation is a sign of Bad News.

'I thought that it would be pleasant to be with you,'
I responded.

'Just the two of us.'

She thought about it for a moment, and then said,
'I would like that very much.'

That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up I was a bit Nervous.
When I arrived at her House, I noticed that she too seemed to be Nervous
about our Date.

She waited in the Door with her Coat on.

She had Curled her Hair and was wearing the Dress that she had worn to
Celebrate her last Wedding Anniversary.

She smiled from a face that was as Radiant as an Angel's.

'I told my Friends that I was going to go out with My Son, and they were impressed, '

She said, as she got into the Car.

'They can't wait to hear about our meeting'.

We went to a Restaurant that, although not Elegant, was very Nice and Cozy.

My Mother took my Arm as if She were the First Lady.

After we sat down, I had to read the Menu. Large Print.

Half way through the entries, I lifted my eyes and saw Mom sitting
there staring at me.

A Nostalgic Smile was on her Lips.

'It was I who used to have to Read the Menu when you were young,'

She said.

'Then it's Time that you Relax and let me Return the Favor,'

I responded.

During the Dinner, we had an Agreeable Conversation, nothing
Extra-ordinary, but catching up on recent Events of each others Life.

We talked so much that we missed the Movie.

As we arrived at her House later,

She said, 'I'll go out with you again, but only if you let me invite you.'

I agreed.

'How was your Dinner Date?' asked My Wife when I got Home.

'Very Nice. Much more so than I could have Imagined,' I answered.

A few days later, my Mother died of a Massive Heart Attack.

It happened so suddenly that I didn't have Time to do anything for her.
Some time later, I received an Envelope with a Copy of a Restaurant Receipt

from the same place Mother and I had dined.

An Attached Note Said:

'I paid this Bill in Advance.

I wasn't sure that I could be there;

But nevertheless, I paid for Two Plates 
One for You and the Other for Your Wife.

You will never know what that Night meant for Me. 

I Love You,  My Son.'

At that moment, I understood the Importance of saying in Time:
'I LOVE YOU!'

and to give our Loved Ones the Time that they Deserve.

Nothing in Life is more important than God and your Family.

Give them the Time they Deserve, because these Things cannot be
Put Off till 'Some Other Time.'

Pass This Along To Everyone

With An Aging Parent,
To A Child,
To An Adult,
To Anyone With A Parent,
To an OLD FRIEND
To your Mate
And Most Importantly, 

To Someone  You Truly Love.
Worth reading....

Yes, its worth reading .... Just read and u will understand. :)

5 Important Things Understood by Self - Understanding.

Today, I am writing my blog after so long, exactly after 20 days, actually I tried to writeup my blog many times but there came stupid excuses and distractions. Anyways, but in these 20 days, experimented and gone through the most important experiences of my life which taught me many things. Thus, I would like to share few of the things here.

1) Don't Change Yourself , Don't Change Your Goodness

2) Don't Fear To Listen & Do What Your Heart/Soul Wants You To Do

3) Accept Your Faults & Allow People To Nail On Your Back

4) Don't Fear To Bear Your Insult, It Actually Helps You To Grow Even Better

5) If People Ignores You, Be Such A Great Power That Wherever They Look, Turns Head and Peer, They See, listen & Think About You.

Actually these facts will grow you. It will build your self confidence. Not everyone understands these self- understanding things, only power people understand it. As I am very much tired today. Hope the right message gets delivered to you via this post, just 5 points !

Importance Of Love In My Life & Right Way To Love Someone.. That's what I believe

Today, since morning, I was very curious to write my blog at this time, but was wandering what I am going to write today. Finally, decided that I will write something about love, the importance of love in my life and how one must take the meaning of love in their life. Generally, and truly I was in assumption that love exists only when both the people love each other and that becomes health relation. But, honestly when I see this with my new eyes to the world, I feel its very much enough if you only just love. Love, itself is a complete subject, there is never any other filaments to be a part of true love we have. I love my crocodile so much, that it is useless to even express and I live lovely with the duplicate soul of my crocodile in me. Its not about being so public, but yes, its my blog and everyone has right to be open to universe. My love got developed being away from my crocodile more and more ........ and yes it is increasing day by day. In such a time of my life, I learnt two things  about love ie.
1) Need For Love
2) Desire for Love

I know, some may thinking that I am making it complicated, but no, I am making it easy to understand as my theories are more dependable on experience and deep analysis on human nature.


Now, when it comes need for love, anyhow we need it... this is what we assume.. that we cannot control our emotions and we no matter what so happened we just want out partner to be with us.. that's true it happens. Infact it happens with me too. :) So, if we don't have to disturb or ask the other who don't love you but you do... it's good to be away and practice for self control. The only practice is just that deeply miss him or her in your heart and if you really have that attraction and true love, you will feel your love. It's not faking, but try you will truly feel the love. It helped me and yes it makes you happy on heights, means, happy to success in your life.  Because, this art  of getting our love within ourselves, is blessed to only we humans on this earth.

While, we talk about desire for love, then it means that you want from your lovely partner something. Honestly, I am not asking to compromise but that 'wanting for love' is a expectation which is the worst illness of love relationship...! Want kills us and changes ourself from the lovely person we were due to intense grief in heart. Don't keep desires for love.... if you keep than just keep desire for happiness and blessing from your love relationship and act accordingly. No matter, if your partner, who don't love you, but if you keep him or her happy and make them feel bless ... same you will receive.. Wants in love is selfishness.... which is not health. Well, everyone have different definition for love.. for me I don't need 'want' , I need and I am getting it with my beautiful practice of extracting love within myself. Try it. and share. :)

My Last Weekend of March! - BE Happy | BE Successful | BE The Best - Just Two Problems and Just Two Solutions :)

Aaah.. my last weekend was dam busy and was flooded with work and meetings but but... I am glad that some is the best we all have in our life actually helps us to be cherish and happy all the time. They are non other than our friends. Last weekend, even sunday was busy but my weekends eves become awesome because one of my beautiful besto friend Roshni Shah. Being, very honest she is elder than me ... :P but I must say a beautiful soul who helped me to be mange work and myself without bursting anger or showers of fires on me. Generally, when we say that we ain't feeling great and seems soulfully sad, there is always two reason.
1) We are in guilt due others or from surroundings or by us.
2) So called ' Ugly Situations'

On this past weekend, our main agenda of spending time together was meaningful that even it can be helpful to anyone. We just wanted to brainstrom a lot analyzing the things which makes our life so dull and ugly. We found two solutions again to solve this stupid but yes very common issues of every one of us.
1) 'Confess By Heart' and 'Forgive Yourself' as soon as possible. Be selfish in this case to get free from burden on guilt and the think of helping surrounding or others of be from guilt.

2) Speak Up and Do Discuss a loud with your super mature and sensible friend circle, who can actually understand you, brainstrom and help you to come out with the right solution. It's very important to have good friend circle and the most important positive friends. Its not the statement of any baisness.. but as it is said that be in surrounding with positive people.

Well, these two things can solve n number of issues and problems of your life. Just start to accept things from little, one day you will finish up all your negativity.

Thanks for my friends, who always helped me Aesha, Annu, Vijay, Roshni and the special my crocodile. :) Few clicks of my last weekend. :)

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Sleeping Is Useless Untill Your Brain Does Not Get Relaxed!

People says, that sleep.. sleep .. sleep! But I don't think so its important to sleep till the time your nervse actually gets relaxed. You know what, when you are thirsty and you don't get water.. there comes two possibilities (1) You faint! and (2) You become strong that even thirst doesn't matters to you. In Hindi we call it 'nassur'. When we be in such a stage of life, where nothing matter to us, no excitement affects us, no guilt, no sadness, no happiness... and it seems 'emotionless', we actually becomes the strongest. Because in such a situation, we only one thing matters in life our power and dignity. If a person even have just a single penny in the pocket, still he will work hard and stand up to build his dignity and power. In such a phase of life, there exist a deep wounds and grief in that person. But they feel, that if they express they will get distorted by the surroundings. I am one of that young woman, yes honestly I am. But I look at life with different approach. I strong believe, 

"When you get painful hits on your ass, which means, when you find this world cruel to you like enemy, dare and dare... don't stop acknowledging to it. If you stops and will starting judging other..... that You Are A Looser, Not Others!"

Its not copied, but indeed my own write up.. what I believe.If you will acknowledge the world, that means you respect your surroundings and if you will respect your surroundings, one day you will realize that 80/ 100% of  surrouding will acknowledge you and respect you. Hence, life will be more sorted. But ... But .. But you have to give more than your expect from people. And, yeah its good, because 'only those people can give more who are powerful  and pure souls.' Ofcourse, ultimate, pure souls' mind remain relaxed gradually though it has many thoughts in their mind. What, I believe is that every thing is linked up, just do great to everyone... and respect every lair tooo... you never know, when that lair or that unhappy person be good like you. So, think, more and analyze your life more... get relaxed first, then sleep well and happily... :) stay will share more...very soon!

How Jenny's Love For Her Crocodile, help me to solve my Time Management issues?

Every Day Every Night - I am getting a positive vibe! Jenny's love for her crocodile is actually increasing as it is being much helpful to grow myself. Generally, people think that if they fall in love with something then that distracts them to pursue their growth... well I strongly believe the opposition approach toward this thing. A true love and dedicated for something helps us to setting our goals. Honestly, speaking I have time management issue and this becomes a great problem sometimes for me. It makes situations so embarrassing. Earlier, I use to escape from such silly things in my life like skipping tution tests and class tests. But, now I don't feel to skip anything in my life, as the soul of my crocodile doesn't allow me to do that and always encourage me to accept challenges. Ahhaa.. its amazing to thing of my crocodile, listening music and reading amazing blog post which will actually help me to work more effectively tomorrow and help me to put creativity.

See, love actually inspires you... here if we examine the things psychologically, if our mind and soul is nurtured and relaxed it makes us very my loyal and integrated with the day to day tasks or work we do. But if our mind is relax, the engery and concentration gets pulled by our work. Hence, a dedicated life is for sure. I was not an integrated work honestly, but now I am being integrated as time my relax soul helps me to work well and heap. Understand the need of your soul and mind. Give focus to fulfill the needs of yourself and then see... your growth and dedicated increasing stepping ahead. Well, I have learned lot today but will gradually share.. as it time to say alvida. today... Will be coming up with a fresh zeal of inspiration tomorrow. :)

Who is crocodile in my life?

Well... its very frank and open thing for  me that I never like to hide and be very much secretive in my life. I love live life so much in 'bindas' way... like the way I am! Crocodile is the one to who I love the most in my life and trust intense. Crocodile is someone who inspires me every single day,every single moment and every single micro second of my life. My love for crocodile keeps on increasing as the time passes. Now, its very weird that why I am so much crazy for my crocodile. Its just because everyone needs a push, a bless, a power and zeal to life their life the fullest.. my crocodile is the one for me! Like every girl, I am same simple bubbly person, but when it comes to  grow.. only one thing helped me always and encouraged me to do something while makes me feel proud and good for myself ,,, ie, just a duplicated soul of my soul mate crocodile which resides in me and never let me feel so alone.  Now... you will think,,,, why jenny is describing her personally deep feeling here..... lol but you know what.. we all must have a duplicate soul of our soul mate forever with us... This makes our life better, happier and the more beautiful by passing each day. Love is not the something which must be stuck or should be every single moment touch with your soul mate.. Feel love always in yourself and so as you will love yourself. This keeps happy and very cherish in life... like I be so cherish and charming all the time. I am not in any diffusion or confusion about what I am express.. its just positivity in  me I am expressing! See... how this works with my #selfie !

I believe to live my life with positivity, like in my fundoo language, I say take the high doz of positivity and diminish the negativity of your life.Its not just reading thoughts or watching inspirational movies or video I am saying this,, I have experienced it myself. This help us To Grow | To Be Loyal | To Be Integrated | To Be Successful | To Be Super Active | To Be Fit-N-Fine | To Be Loveliest ..... now what more one needs to live a great life. Yeah... I know we need money and luxury ..as I need it too...  but these all benefits are the by product of living a great life with right and positive attitude.. !So this was my one of the best learning and experience of life... ! :) Stay tuned.. coming up will new experience tomorrow.

Why so weird title..... What is this blog about?

Hello, I am a Jenny Chawla, a passionate social media marketer. I love blogging and its not just because I have to show or something. But I loving writing with moods not with force. Ofcourse, as I believe 'An Artist Never Gives The Best in His Art If he is forced or made to work!' Artist are so much moody. Everyday after 12am at night.... Oh I am sorry sometimes, I am still confuse in between am and pm.. Lol! Well, everyday after 12, I don't feel to sleep actually, my mind just need to peace and happiness. So now, how I managed to get this peace and happiness.... is by missing my friends, my granny, my sister, my aesha and annu (who are more than friends for me) and ofcourse very much to my love... my Crocodile. I miss them, think of there beautiful and very small things what they do in their lives and seriously I smile and Feeeeeellll so gooood!

At that point of time, I dont feel to talk with them all but just I love to miss them... though there is hell of work pending and the stupid sticky notes and reminders keep buzzing me. Now , why I started writing this blog with an enthusiasm ... its just because I want to write and feel the double the pleasure of missing my peeps! Also, writing dairy give me borring impression on myself but writing blog that too..... so personal blog is awesome! Everyday I learn something new and I keep exploring as a human being. So, now its exclusive and very cheerful thing for me to write a blog what I learn daily and bit of the activities I perform, and what those activities makes me learn here on this blog.

So Here I -- The Jenny Chawla | A Sweetly Ahmedabad's Girl Begin here! You know what, its actually interesting to write in this way!